WHY SEX FREQUENCY DROPS AFTER MARRIAGE:
Sex drops after marriage is a well-known and accepted fact, but why the drop occurs is very subjective. Research has proven that the drop isn’t due to a drop in interest in sex or intimacy but due to the bombarding of other familial responsibilities. When you are juggling your time between PTMs and cleaning poop stains from your walls, sex will be the last thing on your mind.
DECIDING HOW MUCH SEX YOU NEED IS LIKE DECIDING YOUR DIABETES MEDICATION:
That’s saying that it simply depends on the severity of your condition. The way you maintain your very own sugar level is the way you must maintain your sex life. Your more and your less will not be someone else’s and so his ‘so much sex that I can’t move’ may just be your foreplay.
STOP TELLING YOURSELF THAT THERE’S A MINIMUM OR MAXIMUM:
There’s no reason to believe that you are a crappy husband because you can’t cuddle thrice a week. Though we are hardwired to believe that only a certain amount of sex sustains a relationship, it isn’t true. The variation in the frequency of sex is very wide even in the most ‘perfect’ couples.
HERE’S HOW MUCH SEX MARRIED COUPLES ARE HAVING:
A shocker: 15 per cent of married couples haven’t had sex in six months as per a 2009 study. Only 34 per cent are having sex two or three times a week.
SO HOW MUCH SEX YOU SHOULD BE HAVING REALLY? AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE:
Have as much sex as it feels right for you and your partner. The need for worry will only be when you or your partner experience a sudden rise or dip in sex drive. That’s when you need to be wondering about all this and see an expert, if need be.
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