Are church confessions being used against women believers?

The confessions that are said to the priest comes with the belief that they will be a secret between the confessor, God and the mediator, i.e. the priest.

But is it really practical, when a woman’s safety and security is compromised?

The National Commission of Women (NCW) has recommended abolishing the practice of “confessions” in churches as it can lead to the blackmailing of women.

A central agency also needs to do a proper investigation into the increasing incidents of rape and sexual assaults in churches of Kerala, NCW chairperson Rekha Sharma said.

“The priests pressure women into telling their secrets and we have one such case in front of us, there must be many more such cases and what we have right now is just a tip of the iceberg,” she said.

NCW chairperson Rekha Sharma said the commission has sought a probe by a central agency into the two scandals that surfaced last month: one involving four priests of the Malankara Orthodox Syrian Church and the second one accusing the Bishop of Jalandhar, Franco Mulakkal, of rape.

“We have recommended a probe by a central agency into these scandals because such incidents are on a rise in Kerala. An investigative agency should probe into these matters. They should go deep into it to see how many churches are involved in these incidents,” Sharma said.

The commission which has prepared a report on the scandals after meeting the victims is sending it to the Home Ministry and copies of it to Kerala and Punjab governments.

“We have recommended that confession should be abolished from the church. It is being misused by the priests. Many women are suffering. Women cannot share their private life with priests,” Sharma a leading daily news channel.

Sharma claimed there could be more such incidents. “The confession could give an opportunity for the priests to exploit even men. With women, they can sexually exploit them. But with men, they could blackmail them for money. So this confession should go from the churches,” Sharma said.

Asked if the NCW could make a recommendation that affects essential customs of a religious community, Sharma said: “If religious customs and practices are coming in the way of security and safety of women, NCW can definitely seek remedies. The women should not confess, especially before men. If we do not raise such issues and try to make changes, who will?”

Sharma said many churches make confession compulsory to conduct marriages and baptise children. “Many women cannot withstand the social pressure,” she said.

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IS IT ACCEPTABLE?

Cardinal Baselios Cleemis, Major Archbishop of the Syro-Malankara Catholic Church, said that the NCW proposal was “unacceptable” because it was “a direct encroachment into the freedom of a believer.”

“Confession is an issue of faith. Faith is expressed through practices and confession is an expression of a believer to God’s unconditional love and forgiveness. It can be understood only in terms of faith,” said Cardinal Cleemis.

“The Constitution, through Article 25, provides rights to profess, practice and propagate religion. So by proposing this abolition of confession, the NCW is encroaching on that freedom…I doubt if the Commission has such powers.”

“The dignity of women should be promoted. Crimes against them should be punished, whoever commits it, priest or a nun…We would like to see how the Government of India is responding to this proposal,” the Archbishop said.

The NCW urged the Punjab police and Kerala police to act swiftly. “FIRs should be filed and action should be taken in stipulated time. A lot of time has been wasted. Also, the women victims should get help from the state government,” Sharma said.

Sharma also alleged that some authorities were hand in glove with the accused. “Until now they (the accused in both cases) have not been removed from the Church. They are sent on leave…Once things are cooled down, they will come back.”