7 people share how porn ruined their first sex experience

7 people share how porn ruined their first sex experience

If you have an active sex life, you will surely admit that things you see in porn leads to unrealistic expectations. Sex life, as shown in porn movies, might not be as sensual and easy-going as depicted. Unfortunately, people, especially the inexperienced ones, fall for these illusions. We asked couples how porn might have taught them the wrong lessons, and surprisingly most of them agreed that it not only gave them unrealistic expectations, but also ruined their first sex experience.

Here’s what they had to say…

Women always orgasm

“What porn films do not show is that female orgasm is very complicated to achieve. It might take a few seconds for the women to masturbate in the porn clip, but the reality is completely different. Achieving the big-O requires a lot of patience and can take quite some time. In fact, it might not even happen every single time. I was really surprised when I saw that my girlfriend did not have an orgasm when we had sex for the first time”

Ejaculating on her body

“I will have a big argument with my partner if he comes on my body. But porn always shows a woman willingly accepting the man ejaculating on her, which is ridiculous. Unfortunately, that’s what my boyfriend did when we had sex for the first time because he thought that it will excite me to no end. Thanks to all the porn clips he had watched, it totally ruined my experience!”

People have perfect bodies

“Porn actors always have the perfect bodies—think well-endowed penis, six-pack abs, rounded buttocks and ample bosom. In reality, people might have bulging tummies, uneven boobs and even a small penis, and it is completely normal. Imagine my horror when I saw my boyfriend’s penis for the first time and ended up comparing it with what I had seen in porn movies!”

Foreplay matters

“Porn films hardly show any foreplay, nor do they show usage of any lube. They set the wrong expectation that you don’t need any lubrication, be it natural or store bought, before penetrative sex. Trust me, I learnt the importance of lubrication after I had a bad first-time experience”

Moaning loudly is a must

“If a girl is not moaning loudly, that does not mean she is not enjoying the deed. Not everyone likes to make noises or shout erotic words.”

When it comes to pubic hair

“It is kind of sexist to see that females in porn movies are always shaved down there, and men are not. Every woman has pubic hair and it is her personal choice whether she wants to shave it or not. Same applies to men as well. I was really upset when my boyfriend cringed after seeing my unshaved private parts.”