Know how to discuss sexual health issues with your partner

Sexual health is  a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality.  It is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence.

43% of women and 31% of men have one or other kind of sexual dysfunction, an individual could be facing more than 1 sexual problem at a time.

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‘In country of Kamasutra, sex is still a taboo which makes people reluctant to talk about problems in the intimate relationship. Recent, movies like OMG -2 and Doctor G portray the plight of our society for alarming need to focus on sexual health. Fear, shame, embarrassment, being judged and/or ridiculed could be some barriers. Lack of sex education in general, lack of openness to sexual discussion makes one uncomfortable to discuss and seek treatment. Healthcare providers do not have solid knowledge on sexual health leaving them underequipped to address sexual health concerns. Health care providers need to step up creating a safe, nonjudgmental and sex positive space so patients can talk about their sexual challenges,’ says Dr Anita Shyam, MD, and CMO, Qurex.

‘Easy and successful evaluation and intervention models like PLISSIT (Permission, Limited information, Specific suggestion) offers a compendious way to bring sexual health conversation and quick intervention strategies in clinical practice. Use of self-administered sexual functioning scales/questionnaires can be printed and given to patient to fill out during their wait time at the clinic, this takes pressure off practitioner and patient if sexual conversation is not a comfortable domain,’ adds Shyam.

A few questions about sex health and few minutes extra during consultation can help build a strong doctor patient bond. ‘We at Qurex (India’s first Digital Sexual health platform) take pride in our professional and scientific handling of sexual health creating a safe and sex positive space,’ signs off Shyam.